I spent 18 years with one husband who left me after 3 kids…My new husband of 4 years is a gem…but I worry about who I am and how “I” affect our marriage? I am impatient. I am strong-willed. I have ideas and want to be heard. I won’t tolerate being treated as less-than. I work hard–but maybe I need to focus more on “being” that working? My expectations are probably too high. This is scary…but I want to lay this down before the feet of Jesus.